do not believe what you see... nor... do not believe without seeing...

sometimes... we do not need words to tell a stories...





some of you... might understand it... and some... might not... yes... everybody has different capabilities... that make us unique...right..? :-)

are deathcupid talking about s*x...? not for this topic perhaps... maybe someday... right now... we are actually discussing about relationship... one of the most important aspect in our live... we can't live without it but in the same time can't live with it...

the reason is why...? why such a simple relationship... can turn into heart beating complex agenda... does the nature of the relation itself was born with it...? or... is it cause by the person itself...

arguement...

deathcupid never see anybody who involve in relation that do not come across this... we will always have an argument... there will be always unsatisfaction... and... there will be sometime related to trust...

how do we handle the situation... do we sit down and discuss with the person we are arguing with... or do we just make our own consclusion from what we only know...?

...for deathcupid... it is the best for two people to know their mistake... do admitt the mistake if you have too... do not put any allegation without any prove... as seeing is beliving... try to be rational... not emotional... try to care not dare... and try to love and not to hate...

in any arguement try to follow the basic steps... listen first talk later... never turn it around... by listening... you are actually creating an oppurtunity of settlement instead of arguement...

we all have ego's... but the question is... does it worth until you willing to loose somebody that you care about...? for deathcupid... the answer will be not... ;-)


try to remember the simple steps...

- try to listen... then spoken...
- try to be rational... not emotional...
- try to care... not to dare...
- try to love... not to hate...

never know until we try... :-)


dEaThCuPid de' rULes